Whilst we don't have any rules against using the forums merely to chat, there are much better ways to communicate that would get you responses faster:
- being on the server is of course the most preferred option, since you can chat and play at the same time.
- we also have a discord server linked to the minecraft chat, so you can talk to players in the server without having to open minecraft. to access the discord, login to the server and type /discord for the link
- there are also apps such as minechat, which will login on your behalf and allow you to run commands from your phone, for example in case you want to /msg someone but cannot access a computer.